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ONLINE CIRCLES · IN-PERSON RETREATS · AOTEAROA & BEYOND

Men Don't Need
More Advice.
They Need A Circle.

87% of men say they have no one to really talk to.
BROS is where that changes. Free online circles. Transformational retreats.
No experience needed. Just show up.

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130+ men already in circles across Aotearoa
7+Active Circles
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BROS men's circle around a stone fire pit

WHAT IS BROS

A Fire. A Circle. A Place To Be Real.

BROS started around a fire pit in Raglan with a simple idea: men need spaces where they can drop the act, speak honestly, and be held by other men who actually give a damn.

No therapy. No self-help platitudes. Just a circle of men showing up for each other — week after week, month after month. That's the whole thing.

We run free online circles every month and in-person retreatsacross Aotearoa. Whether you're in your living room or sitting around a fire on the coast — you're in.

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MONTHLY · FREE · ONLINE

Online Circles

Join from anywhere. Camera on, headphones in, door closed.
90 minutes of honesty with men who get it.

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Facilitator speaking at BROS fire circle

IMMERSIVE · TRANSFORMATIONAL · AOTEAROA

In-Person Retreats

Fire circles. Cold water. Sacred combat. Brotherhood you can feel in your bones.
Weekend retreats in Whaingaroa, Raglan.

Man tending fire at BROS retreat
JUL24-262026

Rewrite Your Story: Healing the Mother Wound

Whaingaroa, Raglan

2 days of deep inner work with elder facilitator John Vissers. Fire circles, nature connection, ritual, and brotherhood. Limited to 12 men.

$499 earlybird$599 full price
Learn More & Register
Young man in spiritual moment at BROS circle
2026TBC

BROS Leadership Training

Whaingaroa, Raglan

A call to embodied leadership. Circle facilitation frameworks, breathwork, sacred combat, cold water immersion, and elder mentorship. Step up.

Express Interest — Dates Coming Soon

Don't Take Our Word For It

★★★★★

I didn't know how much I needed this until I showed up. Best thing I've done for myself in years.

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DaveWellington
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Finally a space where I can take the mask off. These guys get it.

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MattAuckland
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I joined sceptical. Now it's the thing I look forward to most each week.

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JamesChristchurch
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My wife noticed the difference before I did. I'm a better man for showing up here.

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SamTauranga
★★★★★

You don't realise how alone you've been until you're not anymore. This is that.

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RyanDunedin
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A reward greater than the one desired and known.

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Your Next Move

You're not here by accident. Something in you knows there's more than the grind, the isolation, the mask. BROS is where men go when they're ready to stop pretending and start living.