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ONLINE CIRCLES · IN-PERSON RETREATS · AOTEAROA & BEYOND
87% of men say they have no one to really talk to.
BROS is where that changes. Free online circles. Transformational retreats.
No experience needed. Just show up.

WHAT IS BROS
BROS started around a fire pit in Raglan with a simple idea: men need spaces where they can drop the act, speak honestly, and be held by other men who actually give a damn.
No therapy. No self-help platitudes. Just a circle of men showing up for each other — week after week, month after month. That's the whole thing.
We run free online circles every month and in-person retreatsacross Aotearoa. Whether you're in your living room or sitting around a fire on the coast — you're in.

MONTHLY · FREE · ONLINE
Join from anywhere. Camera on, headphones in, door closed.
90 minutes of honesty with men who get it.

IMMERSIVE · TRANSFORMATIONAL · AOTEAROA
Fire circles. Cold water. Sacred combat. Brotherhood you can feel in your bones.
Weekend retreats in Whaingaroa, Raglan.

Whaingaroa, Raglan
2 days of deep inner work with elder facilitator John Vissers. Fire circles, nature connection, ritual, and brotherhood. Limited to 12 men.

Whaingaroa, Raglan
A call to embodied leadership. Circle facilitation frameworks, breathwork, sacred combat, cold water immersion, and elder mentorship. Step up.
Express Interest — Dates Coming Soon“I didn't know how much I needed this until I showed up. Best thing I've done for myself in years.”
“Finally a space where I can take the mask off. These guys get it.”
“I joined sceptical. Now it's the thing I look forward to most each week.”
“My wife noticed the difference before I did. I'm a better man for showing up here.”
“You don't realise how alone you've been until you're not anymore. This is that.”
“A reward greater than the one desired and known.”

You're not here by accident. Something in you knows there's more than the grind, the isolation, the mask. BROS is where men go when they're ready to stop pretending and start living.