BROS

online circles

The fires are being lit...

FREE · ONLINE · CONFIDENTIAL

Stop Going
Through It Alone.

87% of men say they have no one to really talk to.
Not their mates. Not their partner. No one.
One evening a week changes everything.

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0+ men already in circles across Aotearoa

You're Not Alone Anymore

12 men. One room. Zero masks. You'll wonder why you waited so long to find this.

Vegas Rules

What's shared stays shared. No screenshots. No gossip. No exceptions. This is sacred ground.

One Evening. That's It.

No prep. No homework. No commitment beyond showing up. 90 minutes of being completely real.

Your Living Room Is Enough

Laptop. Headphones. A door you can close. That's the entire barrier to entry.

Pick Your Circle. Show Up This Week.

Every circle is free. No catches. No credit card. Just your name and email.

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3 Steps. 2 Minutes. Done.

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Choose

Pick a circle that fits your schedule. Weekly, fortnightly, monthly — your call.

02

Register

Name. Email. That's literally it. Takes 30 seconds. No payment, no hoops, no catches.

03

Show Up

Join the Zoom link. Camera on preferred. Be yourself. Everything else handles itself.

Don't Take Our Word For It

★★★★★

I didn't know how much I needed this until I showed up. Best thing I've done for myself in years.

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DaveWellington
★★★★★

Finally a space where I can take the mask off. These guys get it.

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MattAuckland
★★★★★

I joined sceptical. Now it's the thing I look forward to most each week. No exaggeration.

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JamesChristchurch
★★★★★

I thought it was going to be awkward. It wasn't. It was exactly what I needed.

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TomHamilton
★★★★★

My wife noticed the difference before I did. I'm a better man for showing up here.

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SamTauranga
★★★★★

You don't realise how alone you've been until you're not anymore. This is that.

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RyanDunedin

Got Questions? Fair Enough.

First time is always the hardest. Here's the truth about what happens.

You sit down. You check in. Each man shares what's really going on — not the 'yeah I'm fine' version. No advice unless you ask for it. The facilitator holds the space. You leave feeling lighter than you have in weeks.

No. You can pass every single time. Some men just listen for the first month. Zero pressure. You'll talk when you're ready — and if that's never, nobody will bat an eye.

No. This is a campfire, not a clinic. Peer-led, not professional. Think of it as the conversation you've been waiting to have with men who actually give a damn. If you need therapy, we'll say so — but this is a different thing entirely.

A laptop or phone with a camera. Headphones. A quiet room where no one walks in. That's the entire list. Join a few minutes early and you're sorted.

Nothing. BROS circles are free. Some leaders accept koha (donation) but it's never expected. This isn't a business model — it's a movement.

Everything. No screenshots. No recordings. No repeating what someone said outside the circle. This rule is non-negotiable and it's the reason the space works.

Want to Lead a Circle?

We're looking for men ready to hold space for other men. No experience needed — we'll show you how. If that's you, reach out.

Start a Circle