Lighthouse 001 · The Accountability Call

Accountability

The practice of keeping your word in brotherhood

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Hosted on Zoom. Tuesday 27 October, 7-9pm

Who are we as men if our words and actions are not in alignment?

Most men know what they should be doing. Fewer have someone who will call them on it. Fewer still know how to “call in” another man - cleanly, without shaming, without backing off.

This call is a training ground, where iron sharpens iron. Where brothers learn the practice of accountability in brotherhood - learning to hold, and be held, accountable.

A hand holding a pounamu axe bound with a feather, against green bush

Why accountability

Over 90-120 minutes on Zoom, join Uncle John Vissers and the BROS leadership community where we’ll explore what accountability really is, and what it isn’t. It isn’t punishment or policing. It’s a form of love that keeps a man true to his word.

We’ll look at how to hold yourself to the commitments you make, call a brother in about integrity - directly, and with care - and receive it when it’s your turn, without defending or collapsing.

There will be space to work through real examples from our own lives in small groups, so the skill lives in your body and not just in your head.

This one is for the men already around our fires.

What to expect

Hosted on Zoom

Tuesday 27 October, 7–9PM NZT. Join from wherever you are, camera on, exactly as you are.

Teaching-led

A training ground on the practice of accountability: holding yourself, calling a brother in, and receiving it in turn.

Held in brotherhood

Real examples from our own lives, worked through in small groups with Uncle John and the BROS leadership community.

Pay what you can

Koha. We keep this accessible — give what you can, $0 is welcome. All koha supports the BROS kaupapa.

John Vissers & the BROS Leadership Team
Who holds it

John Vissers & the BROS Leadership Team

Uncle John Vissers (Big Black Boar) is a BROS elder and mentor. He holds this evening together with the BROS leadership team, with directness and warmth.

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